Does anyone else feel this way? How can the church require some one to obey the word of wisdom, but then completely take out the "eating healthy"  part? I mean, how can they pick and choose what the "word of wisdom" is? Doesn't it say "NOT my commandment or constraint"? How do I share this with a TBM? Or is it useless? 

I was having a discussion with a co-worker about this, and he couldn't grasp the concept that the word of wisdom is a health code, and not just not drinking coffee, tea,...etc. Any suggestions?