So one of my main problems with the church is the whole policy of “Milk before Meat” or as I like to think of it “Bait and Switch”. For example, missionaries won’t tell investigators that Joseph Smith was killed in a firefight in which he maimed and killed people. Or that Elohim had sex with Mary, or that Black people were, for approximately 7,000 years, considered to be inferior to Caucasians due to the choices of Cain, Ham, and their position during the “war in heaven”. They will tell you that you can be with your loved ones forever, and that Jesus and Heavenly Father love you, that you have a purpose and there is a plan for your life. I wish that the church would be open about its doctrines, no sacred/secret temple ceremonies, no milk just meat and doctrine. I would have more respect for the church if they said what they believe rather than suckering people in with platitudes. To paraphrase Paul Toscano, family home evening isn’t what got the pioneers to walk across Wyoming, it was doctrine.