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Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/miguelinbelgium
Interests and Hobbies:
Reading, Television (documentaries), being with friends, writing, bike riding.
Favorite Books:
History, Politics, Islamic World
Favorite Movies:
All except horror.
Favorite activity after mormonism?
Just be myself. Finally.
If you went on an LDS mission, where and when did you go?
Portugal Porto Mission, Dec 87-Dec 89
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Latest Activity

Miguel commented on Dr.Manuel Gerardo Monasterio's blog post A new Blog
"I would like to have access to it.... :)"
Jun 5, 2012
Miguel liked tethercarguy's discussion My Exit Story
Jun 5, 2012
Xenu replied to Miguel's discussion Sex out of marriage in the group Mature Discussions
"I have had casual and/or anonymous sex with a variety of same sex partners.  I would highly recommend it.  I certainly do not regret it.  If you decide that lesbianism is not for you, it would be easy for you to go back to a hetero…"
May 11, 2012
Miguel shared Idaho Spud's blog post on Google +1
Dec 2, 2011
Miguel liked Idaho Spud's blog post This is the most powerful story I've yet read of how the church destroys lives:
Dec 2, 2011
MikeUtah replied to Miguel's discussion Sex out of marriage in the group Mature Discussions
"Let me guess, your spacebar is broken?"
Nov 30, 2011
BlueEyesBrittany replied to Miguel's discussion Sex out of marriage in the group Mature Discussions
"My..view...:...sex..for..sex's..sake...can..be..destructive..in..more;.than..one..way..(unstable;;relationships,..risk..of..unwanted;.Pregnancy..STD's;.and;.HIV).   Sex..within..a..stable..monogamous..lasting..and..loving;.relationship…"
Nov 30, 2011
MikeUtah replied to Miguel's discussion Sex out of marriage in the group Mature Discussions
"Hi Miguel.  I think your feelings regarding missed opportunities are fairly common.  I know I had them.  I have no judgments in regards to experimenting with open marriage and other lifestyles after leaving Mormonism, but I do urge…"
Nov 29, 2011
Miguel added a discussion to the group Mature Discussions

Sex out of marriage

Hi dear group members,I would like to start a topic and have as much feedback as possible. I joined the church at 18 and always lived the law of chastity, when I married sex was a complete new subject for me but now that I left the church I regret all the experiences I didn't have while others were having them. Lately I imagine myself having those experiences now, I dream of having sex with another woman and enjoying it. I imagine myself having sex with a very good and close friend just for the…See More
Nov 29, 2011
Xiban and Miguel are now friends
Nov 28, 2011
Miguel liked Xiban's photo
Nov 28, 2011
Miguel replied to teramia's discussion R.I.P. Jackster
"Althoug I didn't know him personally, the death of one of us will always affect me. When we need real friends we can come here and talk about whatever and nobody will judge us. Jack, my friend and brother, rest in peace and wait for all of us.…"
Nov 28, 2011
Miguel might attend MikeUtah's event

Online Candle Light Vigil in Memory of Jack (Jackster) at LAM Chat/Video Chat

November 28, 2011 at 7pm to November 29, 2011 at 12pm
We lost one of our own today.  For those who knew Jackster the short time he was among us, please join us in chat and video chat tonight to light a candle in his memory and in memory of all who have taken their lives due to the bigotry of Mormonism.  Stop by anytime after 6pm MST (8pm EST) to share your candle, or share others candles in video chat.Please post condolences here: R.I.P. JacksterSee More
Nov 28, 2011
Miguel and Ber_28 are now friends
Nov 18, 2011
Miguel liked MikeUtah's group Mature Discussions
Nov 7, 2011
pollypinks commented on Miguel's blog post Border changes to get rid of us
"Go where you can feel peace and joy.  Go where you feel welcome and free.  Don't let anyone push you around!"
Jul 29, 2011

Miguel's Blog

Border changes to get rid of us

Posted on June 27, 2011 at 7:30am 3 Comments

In 1997 we moved to a beautiful village named Wintam (see photos here) to live nearer to my office. We lived in a small house with a beautiful garden. We lived there for three years. We then attended church meetings at …


Attending church in fear

Posted on June 25, 2011 at 2:05pm 1 Comment

“You have the right to remain silent; everything you say in the mormon church will be misquoted & used against you”.

While attending church in the Belgium Antwerp Stake I experienced something I never experienced before during my life as a member of the mormon church: Fear. I noticed…

15 years in the Belgium Antwerp Stake take its toll!

Posted on October 14, 2010 at 1:30pm 1 Comment

Dear LDS friends,

Since January 2009 my family and I don’t attend the meetings of the LDS church since we were requested…

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At 8:39am on April 22, 2011, MikeUtah said…
I don't see a link to your new FB account.
At 12:17pm on September 12, 2010, Estibaliz said…
Hola Miguel, te escribo en español, porque en ingles me cuesta un poco mas expresarme.Supongo que despues de 25 años te habra costado mucho dejar la iglesia, pero que bonita es la vida despues de que uno empieza a saborear esa libertad verdad?.Yo solo estube 6 años, y fue una lucha interior muy fuerte cuando decidi dejar la iglesia.Mi marido crecio en ella, sin embargo siempre tuvo muchas dudas, el encontrarme a mi ,una conversa, le hizo el camino más facil para salir de ella.Hemos sentido como tu, que hemos malgastado parte de nuestra vida, sobretodo mi marido,pero tambien hemos aprendido a disfrutar de las cosas mas simples de la vida y a valorar la libertad.Me da pena por mucha gente que aprecio qu estan dentro , quieren ver la realidad.Espro que algun día habran los ojos y se den cuenta de la mentira que estan viviendo.
At 1:43am on June 3, 2010, tony said…
Hi Free at last, i know how you are feeling i was a member for over 30 yrs, was Elders Quorum Pres whenI resigned, I hope you are coping with your new life, we are here to help and support you if that is what you would like, best of luck, Tony

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