"TY so much Lucy the prayers of others I know have been a major factor of success. Ever since people have been praying with or for us things have moved on...so ty again we need many faithful prayers cause as Paul says "we don't fight…"

"Hang in there, Wes. As a fellow believer, I am praying for you and your daughter."

"I just got off the phone with the ward secretary trying to put together a sit down with me and my daughter because I resigned my daughter several days ago. I sent a letter to Salt Lake and resigned her formally and requested no further contact…"

" What a tough situation you're in.  Glad to hear you're moving."

"I totally agree with you. I plan to transition her by letting her go to lds every other wed for acheivement night. All her cousins and all her friends are there. She has no close friends outside of that church so I felt truly led to do it that way…"

"Wes- your welcome!   I had another thought about your situation as well, maybe just some person perspective on teenage girls in the church.  I feel quite strongly that these young girls brains are molded quite a bit at church, they…"

"It is definately critical to be gentle about this simply that I may cause her to have resentments towards me and maybe even worse, God. I don't want her feeling I hurt her cause she doesn't understand why she has to stop going there yet. I…"

"Gently take control....and keep her away from a damaging cult.  I was about to say it is more damaging for women and then I thought to myself-  na, I am not even convinced of that statement.  It is just damaging to both male and…"

"TY everyone... good advice"

"I think you need to have a private conversation with your mother about what is appropriate to say to your child and not. If she disagrees or disapproves, that's fine, but she should address her concerns to you and NOT your daughter in order to…"

"You did a great job standing up for her- great argument for your side. Absolutely a 9 year old doesn't have enough life experience to chose her church. And like you said, that "liberalism" only stands as long as it suits their…"

"Yesterday I got up to take my daughter to our new christian church and my TBM mom had been encouraging my daughter all week I found to tell me of her rights to choose the church of her choice. She was telling me in front of my daughter,…"

"this is an interesting link http://mormonthink.com/"

"thank you I did just that.... I am currently just seeking the wisdom of God to do it without causing a loss in her faith... She is a believer in it very attached so to just yank her out and expect a 9 yr/old to understand might not work... I have an…"

"On the Mormon Expression blog, they were discussing how as exmos we are often forced to turn our backs on our parents to save our children.  You do not want the next generation to have to work their way out of the mind control the way you did,…"

"That's hard. Because I mean as long as you both have custody of her, and there's no real (as defined by the state) abuse then there's not much you can do. Other then share you beliefs with her and keep going to church w/ her as long…"