"their rudeness is that if you decline, they will sulk, whine, cajole, and insult you. house guests who have no respect for another's beliefs are called "used car salesmen" or "insurance agents" which is a big dig. the down…"
"I don't see it as a game or prank. I just think people use friendships as networking. A disabled person is not going to help their career, but will often be a liability on their time, patience, and resources. So, they move on."