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Heatherlovesboo commented on MikeUtah's group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"But my issues are like yours in that the outside pressures from my TBM in-laws seem to be at the heart of most (not all) of my marital problems."
Jul 23, 2012
Heatherlovesboo commented on MikeUtah's group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"The first thing is I dont think you can't predict the end of your marriage. Trying to do that might be like a self fulfilling prophecy. How old are your kids? I like the idea of moving to Texas. I think distance from anyone that is not…"
Jul 23, 2012
Heatherlovesboo commented on MikeUtah's group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"I do."
Jul 23, 2012
Heatherlovesboo replied to Heatherlovesboo's discussion As a Nevermo, I am never going to be good enough in the group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"Thank you for the replies. I have seen the demise of my marriage coming for a while. I will never fit the mold of someone raised in a TBM family. I was so naive in not doing my homework in the beginning. I never expected to be a single mom but…"
Feb 24, 2012
Dugger replied to Heatherlovesboo's discussion As a Nevermo, I am never going to be good enough in the group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"Wow.  That's really tough.  I guess you are seeing a side of your husband that's coming completely from out of left field.  Somewhere within himself, he must be longing to re-join the flock and return to TBM ways.  It…"
Feb 24, 2012
MikeUtah replied to Heatherlovesboo's discussion As a Nevermo, I am never going to be good enough in the group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"Wow Heather.  I can see how painful this is for you.  Certainly doesn't seem fair.  Since it sounds like separation is already imminent, perhaps getting some space between you will allow you both to see more clearly and…"
Feb 24, 2012
Daniel replied to Heatherlovesboo's discussion As a Nevermo, I am never going to be good enough in the group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
"I'm sorry you're going through this.  It sounds, though, like some space may be just what the doctor ordered.  I understand what you're saying about the superior mentality and it's not right, but it's definitely…"
Feb 24, 2012
Heatherlovesboo commented on MikeUtah's blog post Dissolving Passive Aggressive-ness and Communicating Assertively
"Wow, I read your post and started researching passive aggressive behavior. It was like a revelation. I have been going crazy trying to deal with my husband's antics and now just realizing so much of it is passive aggressive behavior taken to…"
Feb 24, 2012
Heatherlovesboo added a discussion to the group Mixed Faith Marriage Support
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As a Nevermo, I am never going to be good enough

I am a nevermo and my husband has been inactive the entire time that we have been together but his family is a multiple generations TBM family. Even though my husband is inactive, I feel like he always looks down at me as not as good as his TBM family.As petty as this sounds, the fact that I won't bake home made bread has been a huge source of disappointment for him. We have two small children (ages 1 and 3) who he adores but I might as well have been his surrogate because he treats me with…See More
Feb 24, 2012
Heatherlovesboo liked MikeUtah's discussion Now open to lurking and lurkers
May 14, 2011
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Mixed Faith Marriage Support

This group is primarily for those navigating a mixed exmo/TBM relationship or marriage to support each other and share what works, what to avoid, and how to best cope or move on. Nevermo/TBM sojourners are also welcome.See More
May 14, 2011
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Heatherlovesboo is now a member of Life After Mormonism (exmormon)
May 7, 2011

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My Story:
I am a NeverMO but mom to a 3 year old and 1 year old with my husbandwho is just technically inactive in the Church. He stopped going to Church about 5+ years ago but never officially took his name off the rolls. His family are all very TBM. My husband's behavior is very much conflicted. I am on a journey of trying to figure out/deal with his issues and deal with his family as I raise my boys as NeverMos. (And yes my sons will always be NeverMos)

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At 8:50am on May 9, 2011, Idaho Spud said…
Welcome Heatehrlovesboo.
At 2:03pm on May 7, 2011, pollypinks said…
Welcome Heatherlovesboo.
At 12:32pm on May 7, 2011, MikeUtah said…
Welcome Heatherlovesboo!  Glad you could join us.  Enjoy the site and community.
 
 
 

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