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Meeting with the Bishop

Started this discussion. Last reply by Cinco May 3, 2011. 15 Replies

I am meeting with the Bishop today to let him know that we don't want to be visited, not to be contacted, not to be bothered and we don't need friends assigned to us.In a good manner not with…Continue

Meeting with the Bishop

Started Apr 20, 2011 0 Replies

I am meeting with the Bishop today to let him know that we don't want to be visited, not to be contacted, not to be bothered and we don't need friends assigned to us.In a good manner not with…Continue

What do you like from your post mormon life?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 23, 2011. 18 Replies

I posted a forum on how to get over mormonism, now I would like to ask you, what do you like from your post mormon life? what have you discover that makes you happy? which activities you enjoy now?I…Continue

Tags: activities, life, positive

Hypocrisy, denial and other flavors

Started this discussion. Last reply by pollypinks Mar 17, 2011. 26 Replies

Now that my new life has begun I look at the many people in the wards I lived that were either hypocrites or deny their own reason. And I wonder why I was so correct when all around me I found…Continue

Tags: mission, theft, adultery, sex, denial

 

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Nicholas liked BCandfree's discussion I finally come to realize...I am an atheist, I am feeling prompted to tell the world
Jul 26, 2011
Idaho Spud liked BCandfree's discussion I finally come to realize...I am an atheist, I am feeling prompted to tell the world
Jul 26, 2011
Jonas Clausen replied to BCandfree's discussion I finally come to realize...I am an atheist, I am feeling prompted to tell the world in the group Totally Atheist
"Prompted? By the "spirit" of Atheism ;-) I like that. I wouldn't call militant atheism as revenge per se, but more of an amends, a righting of wrongs. I used to lie to people about the way the world was. I tried very hard to convince…"
Jul 26, 2011
BCandfree replied to almi325's discussion can someone please explain WASHING AND ANOINTING?
"it did happen, i got mine endowement in 1998 and it did happen, slightly touching brest, loins, head, legs, feet. Is a mormon thing, israelites used to anoint the head only, wash the feet... tell your friend the apotles wash each other feet, raise…"
Jul 25, 2011
BCandfree replied to RuthLess's discussion Hymns for the Godless? in the group Totally Atheist
"my new hymns are whatever song we feel like singing, I adore mi kids singing "everything is gonna be alright" from Bob Marley tune, or other popular music, as long as is not rubish hate lyrics. I missed not hymns but what music does, we…"
Jul 25, 2011
BCandfree replied to Billy Forbes's discussion What you doing since becoming totally atheist ? in the group Totally Atheist
"as an Exmo I develop a great taste for wine, as an atheist i am in the process to change family habits. I enjoy asking religious people to tell me about their beliefs, I can see the arguments i used to defend,... it confirms my atheism is a gate to…"
Jul 25, 2011
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I finally come to realize...I am an atheist, I am feeling prompted to tell the world

I am an atheist, I don't have any other explanation than surender to my common sense and see myself in this new world. I am happy though, to realize no one has all the answers.It took me a while, as I have been used to the metaphysical for so long. Thanks to my dear wife that has pointed out clearly to me the absence of God in recent events: death, sickness...and witnessing those in the church giving answers that in other times were fullfilling, today those answers are...crap.I am not an angry…See More
Jul 25, 2011
BCandfree joined Billy Forbes's group
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Totally Atheist

For those who don't believe in JC, GtF and the HG anymore.
Jul 25, 2011
BCandfree commented on Xiban's group Ex mormones en español
"quien se anima a hacer un PodCast en espanol?"
Jul 25, 2011
BCandfree replied to Robin's discussion God or no God?
"no God, world makes more sense, honestly, is not sad, is actually quite wonderful to realize the potential of humanity, its evolution, the cap[abilities of our specie, the relations we build and howe we protect life for the survival of our tribes No…"
Jul 21, 2011
BCandfree replied to CamBam's discussion What do you base your morality on now?
"if it protects life, gives equality, and preserve the human race, i am for it if it does not, then is not good,  i am developing morality as we speak..."
May 9, 2011
BCandfree replied to familyman952's discussion Why do we give god so much credit
"i have face death in the family and cancer as well right now, and my wife and I had a similar discussion but in those case we both felt disgusted for life. My wife put it in a very simple way: if there is a God is not useful right now.  I…"
May 9, 2011
BCandfree replied to BCandfree's discussion Meeting with the Bishop
"As you point out, i am watching my back, I have been in stake high council several times and I was one of the public images of the Church in a country we lived in, coming from a family of leadership as well, however this bishop does not know nothing…"
May 2, 2011
BCandfree replied to BCandfree's discussion Meeting with the Bishop
"i feel this bishop (new in the calling) was using the coversation as a learning experience, and fortunately was cool with my decision. I would have feel disgusted as well"
May 2, 2011
WoahNellie replied to BCandfree's discussion Meeting with the Bishop
"hey-did you ever try to get the bishop disciplined? Did you talk to the stake pres about it? Because if you left AND got a bishop disciplined, that would be freakin' awesome. Normally I wouldn't toe the revenge line, but a guy like that…"
Apr 27, 2011
BCandfree replied to BCandfree's discussion Meeting with the Bishop
"the bishop was a good guy that respected my decision to vsit him and explain, not many people go to him with an upfront request and desire to be left alone, so he ensured me he will do all to respect our decision. Did not judge or tried to convert…"
Apr 21, 2011

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just started my life as an ex mormon
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culture, arts, politics
Favorite Books:
ken follet books
Favorite activity after mormonism?
wine tastings
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At 10:01am on March 9, 2011, Becca said…
Unfortunately that's the earliest I could be there.  I think Monday should work.  I'll let you know if that changes!
At 8:28am on March 9, 2011, Becca said…
We still on for today?
At 5:03pm on March 2, 2011, Becca said…
I'm not usually too keen on meeting someone I've met online because there's no of telling for sure that they are who they say they are (though I did meet me bf on POF, but I talked with him on the phone a few times).  So, if you wouldn't mind, PM me your facebook and we can sort out any other details on there!  :)
At 4:25pm on March 1, 2011, Becca said…
I work weekdays in the commercial Drive area....so I wouldn't be able to do lunch.  But a coffee after work at like 5ish would work for me!
At 2:26pm on March 1, 2011, Anthrogran said…

Glad to see another Canadian here! I have relatives in your area, BCandfree. We may know some of the same people! Welcome.

 

At 11:20am on February 26, 2011, Becca said…
Coffee would be cool!...as long as you're cool with treking it out to Vancouver. I don't have a car. :( So, what brought you BC?
At 9:52am on February 24, 2011, Becca said…
Yay!  Another Canadian!  I'm in Vancouver, so I've likely seen you at some point.  I just joined this site a few days ago, but I can still say, welcome!!!
At 8:11am on February 24, 2011, MikeUtah said…
Welcome BCandfree!  Glad you could join us.  Enjoy the site and community.
 
 
 

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