I was born and raised in San Jose, CA, and then moved with my parents and sister to Burley, ID. I got married in the Manti temple, had 2 children and got a divorce after 15 years of trying to make it work. By then, I had already figured out what the church was (and that it wasn't for me). I am now remarried to a man I met at primary when we were both 10 years old. Neither of us are LDS anymore, and life is completely different for us. I am happier and more at peace now than I have ever been.