Mature Discussions


Mature Discussions

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Started by KindSmile. Last reply by Jayson Jan 21, 2016. 29 Replies

So is the sin next to the sin next to murder still a sin ? Continue

Ex-mormons= better lovers?

Started by CamBam. Last reply by Paul Dec 19, 2015. 10 Replies

A lot has been made of how mormonism can ruin your sex life, but has anyone run into this?I've had insanely satisfying physical relationships with questioning/exmormons- so much passion, the ability…Continue

Does the bible say anything about sex before marriage?

Started by MikeUtah. Last reply by Carrie Nov 12, 2015. 4 Replies

(new discussion for Sparrowlark's quesiton):Okay, So I know that everyone interprets the Bible differently, and I know that not everyone on this site believes in Christianity or God for that matter.…Continue

Have your opinions on PORN changed?

Started by TheMama. Last reply by Carrie Nov 12, 2015. 87 Replies

So, as I've released myself from TSCC my opinion on many things has changed, sometimes dramatically... as I'm sure many of you can relate.I was wondering about other people's thoughts on porn... have…Continue

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Comment by pollypinks on May 11, 2011 at 11:27am
Oh, I'm one of the "oldies" here who remembers getting an enema just prior to childbirth.  Pre-epidural days, sitting on the can, hanging onto the sink for dear life!
Comment by bikinimaureen on May 11, 2011 at 8:25am
I figure those 'things' will find their way in with or without a bathing suit. But yes I do feel more vulnerable than my male companion when swimming. Enema anyone? 
Comment by pollypinks on May 11, 2011 at 8:17am
I'm wondering if any other females here have "issues" with swimming in lakes, rivers, or oceans nude because of the design of our genitalia, or is it just me that doesn't like some "things" entering my body.
Comment by Brian Utley on May 11, 2011 at 1:32am
Note exactly Mormon past times, Chief...But real...
Comment by Miguel on March 29, 2011 at 6:12am

I was a convert but I never had problems with nudity. Before we got married I had no problem about walking around naked in my appartment when my girlfriend was visiting.


We left TSCC two years ago and our sex live has improved a lot. The cult ruins people's sexuality and I always tell my children that I want that they have a great sexual life when time comes. Sexuality is one of the many "glues" in a relationship.

Comment by pollypinks on March 19, 2011 at 11:24am
Brian, with seven children I'd say you have a pretty good shot at some of them knowing the intimacies of masturbation.  On the garments, just ask someone who's been through menopause wearing them.  They lie if they say it's all good.
Comment by Libby on March 19, 2011 at 10:56am

i'm amazed but not surprised that there aren't more members to this forum and more activitiy. The church represses and villifies sex so heavily that the conditioning goes really deep. and it's hard to let go of that. very hard to relax about it even in a safe place. that is sad to me. very. 


Comment by pollypinks on March 15, 2011 at 9:51am
I walked in on my teen son masturbating.  I hadn't seen him in years, and honestly, I was more surprised about his size than what he was doing.  He had a girlie lesbian porn magazine.  I quickly left the room and never brought it up again, but he had lots of magazines as an underage kid, and I always wonder where he got them.
Comment by james on March 15, 2011 at 8:54am

The garments are a physical barrier and a mental barrier as well.  Entirely unflattering, unappealing, and a constant nagging issue in the back of the head of the believing member to wear them, wear them, wear them! 


Garments remove so much of the intimacy potential.  A real shame how much of mormon doctrine and culture simply pollutes the experience of intimacy for so many couples, to the detriment of the marriage.  

Comment by Brian Utley on March 15, 2011 at 8:31am
Woes me!  What do we do about typos and spelling errors?  In my previous post, the word is "accepted," not "excepted."  I hope you who read that post still love me anyway.

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