I had been sitting on the fence, trying to determin "Should I leave or not".
Did the in & out with the active/in-active game. Finally I spotted a group on Facebook, and found 2 people I knew from BC. I messaged them with questions and they were to able to answer my questions.
They convinced me that I should go ahead and send my exiting papers.
About 2 or 3 months later, i got the answer the from SLC saying that they removed my name from their data base.
My oldest sister was up-set about this and gave me a hard time, but she is over it now. A brother of mine still talks about the church with me, but I don't think he will get the hint.
I am HAPPY that I left, and have NO DESIRES to go back.