I grew up in Utah county, and even though I think I'm fairly open-minded, I think I'm still a bit naive.  I've gotten a bit better (I didn't know about the clitoris till I was 17, and I didn't even realize people performed oral sex on women until I was 20, so it's not hard to be further along the path of knowledge than I was before...)  

I'm in a safe, loving, sexual, long-term relationship, and emotionally and romantically we've got a great love life, but we're lacking in our sex life.  It's just gotten boring.  

I'm not really sure where to ask, so I figured I'd start in the adult topics group.  Does anyone have any tips on how to spice up a sex life?

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Spice up your sex life by complimenting women, because they love it???  Takes me back to 8th grade.  I'd rather my mate take care of the chores around the house.  Now that makes me want to have sex more than him saying cheesy nice things about me.

I've often wondered if bishop's courts are as hard on women as they are on men.  Say, on a woman who's had an abortion.  Stuff like that, where the woman probably needs a support group.


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