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Profile IconLaurelin Diamond, Antonio Carlos Popinhaki and Kristen Gill joined Life After Mormonism (exmormon)
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Tummykatt replied to TheMama's discussion Have your opinions on PORN changed? in the group Mature Discussions
"I enjoy porn. I enjoy it far more now because I don't feel guilty for enjoying it. One man's meat, is another man's tofu."
12 hours ago
Tummykatt added a discussion to the group Mature Discussions


Has anyone else gotten into 'The Scene'?And if so- what have you discovered about it and how it interacts with  you?For myself- I find it ennervating. And just for the Record- 50 Shades of Grey is considered to be akin to Real BDSM as much as the…See More
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Tummykatt joined Kathy's group


All folks who live in the Pacific NorthWestern Portion of the US
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Tummykatt joined Billy Forbes's group

Totally Atheist

For those who don't believe in JC, GtF and the HG anymore.
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Mature Discussions

This group is for discussing adult sexual topics that are an important part of exploring and adjusting to the new world after Mormonism. Viewer discretion is advised and the house rule of personal respect to all still applies.See More
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A group existed just for Atheists, and one can be both an agnostic and an atheist. However I thought it would be nice to have a group just for the Agnostics/Ignostics.  Agnostic-atheists are free to join here too, as are deists, pandeists, etc.
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Alcohol for Beginners

A group to offer helpful drink tips to those of us first venturing into alcohol after leaving Mormonism.  Tips on easy to drink beers, wines, mixers and more.
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Tummykatt replied to Adam's discussion Married Exmo with wife and kids and I am Gay - what do I do? in the group LGBTQ exmos
"My mother- is a lesbian. But she only admitted to it- after she'd gotten married and had kids. She was Catholic He a Prot. Not Mo  I'm afraid. Ultimately she decided that she had to be true to herself. And yes she caused some pain to…"
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Church on Sunday: a Glimpse at Mormon Services

Posted by leahwalker on July 22, 2015 at 12:15pm 0 Comments

The first time I went to a Christian denomination church worship service as an adult was a non-denominational, charismatic church service. Needless to say, it was a strange event for me. It seemed like sheer pandemonium had ensued. I was still…


Mom, ( I have tried to love her but she is messed up)

Posted by Andy on July 14, 2015 at 3:43pm 0 Comments

Here is an example of my mother, who was so caught up in the Mormon Church and all of it's hype that she doesn't understand what is really important in life, (at least in my opinion).

My Mother was and is pretty well know in the Mormon…


dating after mormonism

Posted by Shadowpuck on July 10, 2015 at 8:30pm 0 Comments

Being raised in the church, I was programmed for a celestial marriage.  I didn't have a testimony that the church was true and was convinced that it was because there was something wrong with me.  If I could only be 'better' or 'more' spiritual,…


Sabbath Day Observance

Posted by Lolly on July 3, 2015 at 10:52pm 2 Comments

Has anyone read the directive, Packer's baby I think, on Sabbath Day observance? Now that my eyes are open, I see right through it to the mind control tactic that it is.  The specifics are to be worked out in each ward council.  Families will be…


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